The Will to Wait. ..

The wait for that perfect mate. .. the Basherte, the divinely predestined, foreordained soulmate. .. The journey to her has a certain path. .. a path that at times seemed to feel like wandering, especially when there is no one. .. And the journey become a cold lonely search for all that the heart desires. .. Sometimes we think we have found it only to realize that desire for the flesh. .. is just that, desire for the flesh, real love can not exist or manifest in such a sinful space.

How does one find her. ..? the Word of God says. .(Proverbs 18:22) He who finds a wife finds a good thing. .. And obtains favor from the Lord. But the question remains. .. how does one find her, where do I find her, and how will I know when I have found her?

Psalm 37:4, Delight thyself in the Lord and He will give thee the desires of thine heart. .. Delighting oneself in the Lord. .. finding your greatest joy in Him. ..desire to know Him. .. talk to Him. ..hear and understand His Word. ..Let Him be the true source of your joy and inspiration.

That's where you will find her. .. in the Lord. .. seeking His blessing for that mate that loves and worships the Lord. .. Understand. .. If you just looking for a girl friend, or someone to just hang out with. .. just want to have a good time with. ..that is not The Basherte. ..(male: Basherter). That is not the gift that God gave Adam when he said. .. (Genesis 2:18). .. It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a help meet for him. .. You have to go through the Lord if you want her. .. He made her. ..just for you. ..Delight yourself in the Lord and let Him make her for you. .. That's what His word says. ..Maybe I should just say that again. .. The Lord said. .. It is not good that the man should be alone. ..I will make him a help meet for him. .. other translations of this passage say, I will make a helper who is right for him, suitable for him. .. I translate that into the perfect mate for me and you. ..that's what his word says. .. Delight thyself in the Lord. ..

Then. .. Wait. ..you can't rush perfection. .. Do not settle. .. wait. .. do not become weary. .. wait.

Isaiah 40:28-31. .. Hast thous not known? Hast thou not heard, that the everlasting God, the Lord, the Creator of the ends of the earth, fainteth not, neither is weary? There is no searching of his understanding. He giveth power to the faint, and to them that have no might, He increases strength. Even the youths shall faint and be weary, and the young men shall utterly fall:

But. .. They that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary, and they shall walk, and not faint.

I say. .. Wait upon the Lord. .. He knows the desires of your heart when you delight yourself in Him and the favor of the Lord will be upon you. ..His Grace and Mercy endures forever. .. Amen